tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7658526372996117205.post8023697895100346062..comments2023-09-29T05:32:04.308-07:00Comments on StrangePegs: The Emotional Lawn (an Indie Life post)Andrew Leonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13964775673414653644noreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7658526372996117205.post-83552472541261718102013-10-13T18:58:58.777-07:002013-10-13T18:58:58.777-07:00Lee: I have heard of that happening many times. An...Lee: I have heard of that happening many times. And I considered that angle, but I ended up leaving it out due to length. Maybe I'll come back to it at some point.Andrew Leonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13964775673414653644noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7658526372996117205.post-85127925597339107212013-10-11T08:08:08.480-07:002013-10-11T08:08:08.480-07:00You come up with some really good analogies.
In o...You come up with some really good analogies.<br /><br />In our neighborhood there was an ecology minded guy who planted his yard with drought resistant plants that were indigenous to the region. Our association made him pull it all up and plant a regular lawn like all the other houses had. I guess that could work into your analogy in some way.<br /><br />Lee<br /><a href="http://tossingitout.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">Tossing It Out</a>Arlee Birdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11663942782929929334noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7658526372996117205.post-22508352576363885782013-10-10T16:46:42.192-07:002013-10-10T16:46:42.192-07:00Maurice: It does take a lot of work.
MP: Thank yo...Maurice: It does take a lot of work.<br /><br />MP: Thank you!<br /><br />Tina: That's true. Weeds too easily grow. Okay, now, that needs to be in a poem. I'm probably not going to write it, though.<br /><br />Analogy-Man... hmmm...Andrew Leonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13964775673414653644noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7658526372996117205.post-75260484608261953042013-10-10T16:30:35.651-07:002013-10-10T16:30:35.651-07:00dagnabbit...subscribing...I was on such a roll...
...dagnabbit...subscribing...I was on such a roll...<br />Tina @ <a href="http://kmdlifeisgood.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">Life is Good</a>Tinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08925730745204736744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7658526372996117205.post-90976157527778052382013-10-10T16:30:05.219-07:002013-10-10T16:30:05.219-07:00Analogy-Man strikes again! You might become my ne...Analogy-Man strikes again! You might become my new favorite superhero. But then I'd have to go back to Briane's place and change my vote...but it would be worth the trouble.<br />I've never had to mow a lawn in my life. I had a brother, then a husband, and now boys, who started mowing the lawn at waaaay too young an age, in my opinion. We also garden. I do my flower beds, The Engineer the aquaponics. (When will spell check (universally, not just where I've taught it) learn that aquaponics is a real word?!?)<br />I think tending your emotional lawn applies to other areas besides writing, though. We can get "weeds" about anything we're really invested in.<br />Tina @ <a href="http://kmdlifeisgood.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">Life is Good</a>Tinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08925730745204736744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7658526372996117205.post-53855961432502688362013-10-10T15:12:49.544-07:002013-10-10T15:12:49.544-07:00That was a perfect analogy!That was a perfect analogy!Missed Periodshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10343265071637032284noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7658526372996117205.post-82573715441282756072013-10-10T13:36:50.660-07:002013-10-10T13:36:50.660-07:00Good analogy Andrew. It takes work to keep it look...Good analogy Andrew. It takes work to keep it looking good.Maurice Mitchellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15338165486757095191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7658526372996117205.post-69588975036809024092013-10-10T11:55:13.768-07:002013-10-10T11:55:13.768-07:00Kathryn: It was the only thing that made it bearab...Kathryn: It was the only thing that made it bearable.<br /><br />Jo: Thanks!<br /><br />ABftS: In a lot of ways, it's not really fair. We give our friends and family a lot of slack over meltdowns and such, because, well, they are human, but we don't extend that same understanding to people trying to "make it."<br /><br />alexia: It's hard to know until the time comes. A lot of authors just don't look at reviews at all because they can't deal, but I don't think that's best way to handle it.Andrew Leonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13964775673414653644noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7658526372996117205.post-78004562308355440632013-10-10T09:35:27.722-07:002013-10-10T09:35:27.722-07:00Nice metaphor! I often wonder how I'll be abou...Nice metaphor! I often wonder how I'll be about reviews and stuff once I finally get published... I've grown an extremely thick skin when it comes to querying, so I hope that will cross over once I'm on the other side.alexiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07122487552931794871noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7658526372996117205.post-70468016079878864122013-10-10T06:09:58.636-07:002013-10-10T06:09:58.636-07:00As the other have said, you're really good wit...As the other have said, you're really good with life metaphors. Teach me!<br /><br />Also, what you said is 100% true. It's amazing how careful you have to be with how you word everything as an Indie author. Isn't it funny to think that if we said one wrong thing, everything we've built up over the past 3 years could just come crumbling down?A Beer for the Showerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17029139745335325356noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7658526372996117205.post-81163773309328068062013-10-10T05:17:31.383-07:002013-10-10T05:17:31.383-07:00I like the analogy too. You are good at it Andrew....I like the analogy too. You are good at it Andrew. <br /><br />I do hope the weeds stay away from your emotional lawn. <br /><br />Living in an apartment I don't have to worry about yard work. Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14087140585742801854noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7658526372996117205.post-69062113687138613272013-10-10T03:49:19.396-07:002013-10-10T03:49:19.396-07:00I totally agree with you on this one. As indie aut...I totally agree with you on this one. As indie authors, we have to take good emotional care of ourselves. <br /><br />PS Love that you used to mow designs into the lawn :-)Kathryn Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13103402876949760433noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7658526372996117205.post-58650181481927179552013-10-09T16:31:42.048-07:002013-10-09T16:31:42.048-07:00Rusty: Is your wife also a morning person?
Being a...Rusty: Is your wife also a morning person?<br />Being able to one day pay someone to do things like yard maintenance is a goal of mine.<br /><br />Briane: You're right; what does HE know? At least, he also says how much he likes your writing even if there are some technical issues.<br /><br />What is it with dads and lawns? And, well, if they're going to get upset, they need to do the mowing.<br /><br />Shannon: Well, thank you :)<br /><br />TAS: Oh, man, I haven't even scratched the surface.Andrew Leonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13964775673414653644noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7658526372996117205.post-3331055569910409512013-10-09T14:12:32.105-07:002013-10-09T14:12:32.105-07:00Man, your folks worked you hard. Moving furniture...Man, your folks worked you hard. Moving furniture, mowing the lawn...The Armchair Squidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13509001761075530940noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7658526372996117205.post-82360773908322102872013-10-09T13:37:05.390-07:002013-10-09T13:37:05.390-07:00I agree with Briane and others. I love how you sta...I agree with Briane and others. I love how you start with one topic that seems to have nothing to do with writing, then turn around and make an excellent comparison of how it does, in fact, have something to do with writing. I also agree with Alex that I think this refers to any author, really, until/unless they've reached the big time. It's hard to put out something so visible and wait for opinions to roll in on it.<br /><br />Shannon at <a href="http://thewarriormuse.com/" rel="nofollow">The Warrior Muse</a>Shannon Lawrencehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00934641808195675935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7658526372996117205.post-43620518162107368072013-10-09T12:37:43.918-07:002013-10-09T12:37:43.918-07:00You are skilled at metaphors. I'm always amaze...You are skilled at metaphors. I'm always amazed at how you manage to do these posts that begin with topics like yards and weeds and finish up with great writing (and life) advice.<br /><br />The Gospel According To Andrew Leon.<br /><br />Anyway, I enjoyed this. I try to remember things like this whenever I get down about sales or reviews or some guy who says I need to edit my books better. "What does HE know!" I fume. "He probably spends all his time at Steampunk Accordion conventions!"<br /><br />Your thing about mowing your lawn in patterns got me, though: I used to do that, too! I once mowed our lawn in a spiral-ish pattern. My dad came home, looked out in the yard, and said "What did you do?"<br /><br />He was pretty upset. I thought it looked cool. But he never liked it when I did diagonals or anything, either.Brianehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01616494058636881575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7658526372996117205.post-43369464882412110912013-10-09T12:25:13.789-07:002013-10-09T12:25:13.789-07:00Not a fan if yard work either. The wife loves it. ...Not a fan if yard work either. The wife loves it. We've got a pretty big yard and it used to take half a day to mow with a push mower, then weeding and such was an hour or so on top of that. I used to do it in stages, a little one day, a little the next. It was awful. <br /><br />Then we started paying people to do it for us. Best decision we ever made. Now she spends more time gardening and it get to spend more time doing laundry. The system works!Rusty Carlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09887821877521181811noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7658526372996117205.post-82415824223593573282013-10-09T11:36:50.077-07:002013-10-09T11:36:50.077-07:00moha: Thanks. I think people forget about the visi...moha: Thanks. I think people forget about the visibility they have on the Internet because it can feel so anonymous.<br /><br />Alex: Well, we're actually planning to pull up that part of the yard (at some point) and put in more planter boxes (and get rid of those stupid rocks), so I'm not stressing over them at the moment.<br /><br />JKIR,F!: Actually, I have a degree in psychology...<br />And thanks!<br /><br />Elsie: It's probably a good thing to have to do that work.<br /><br />Catherine: Well, I like to think so.<br /><br />Nissa: Part of the problem with some of this is there is some truth to some of it. There is discrimination against indie authors, BUT that's part of the deal you're signing up for when you decide to go your own way. If you don't want to deal with it, you should seek traditional publication. It's not exactly right to complain to other people about the cost of something you chose to sign up for.<br /><br />Crystal: I'm not sure I could live with a plastic yard. And I bet there would still be weeds.Andrew Leonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13964775673414653644noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7658526372996117205.post-25574413082333129612013-10-09T11:01:40.876-07:002013-10-09T11:01:40.876-07:00My husband always said we'd install AstroTurf ...My husband always said we'd install AstroTurf instead of grass. Cut out the headache. Thankfully I now have a teen to mow the lawn and it's not as big a deal, but those weeds... Ug! <br /><br />Awesome metaphor, and what a great reminder!Crystal Collierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03912469552483168148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7658526372996117205.post-87027944476373705632013-10-09T08:07:58.720-07:002013-10-09T08:07:58.720-07:00I had an indie author friend who had a big chip on...I had an indie author friend who had a big chip on his shoulder about being an indie author. He accused everyone of discriminating against indie authors. He demanded that a discussion forum be supportive of him as an indie writer by allowing him to flaunt the rules by posting constant 'buy-my-book' posts.<br /><br />This garden of resentment meant that when I got down to reading his free sample chapters I very easily saw all the flaws in his writing. I was glad I had not been offered a free review copy from him, since I could find little positive to say and didn't want to end up a target of his resentment again.<br /><br />You have some wise advice, and I think we would all do well to follow it.Nissa Annakindthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16289000116822109714noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7658526372996117205.post-25742821201211361052013-10-09T08:01:00.302-07:002013-10-09T08:01:00.302-07:00Ha! Emotional Lawn, love that metaphor! You must b...Ha! Emotional Lawn, love that metaphor! You must be a good writer to think that one up. And it's so true. Catherine Stinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08131569196977321229noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7658526372996117205.post-90882543713675065662013-10-09T05:10:28.081-07:002013-10-09T05:10:28.081-07:00As long as the weeds don't take root, the auth...As long as the weeds don't take root, the author can pull them free, and move on having learned something rather than feeling scorned; it's not always a bad thing to have to do that work.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7658526372996117205.post-4532279853607012842013-10-09T03:57:54.147-07:002013-10-09T03:57:54.147-07:00Your analogies are awesome! Have you ever thought ...Your analogies are awesome! Have you ever thought of being a shrink?Just Keepin It Real, Folks!https://www.blogger.com/profile/02691470259291755580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7658526372996117205.post-39076085263152881522013-10-09T03:21:36.838-07:002013-10-09T03:21:36.838-07:00I think the lawn matters for all but the biggest a...I think the lawn matters for all but the biggest authors.<br />Two words - one product - for your rocks: Round-Up.<br />Hate yard work. I keep threatening to put in astro-turf...Alex J. Cavanaughhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09770065693345181702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7658526372996117205.post-3161335644635868452013-10-09T02:31:25.338-07:002013-10-09T02:31:25.338-07:00This was a really nice post, Andrew. I really like...This was a really nice post, Andrew. I really liked the analogy, and the thought that went into it. I think many could benefit from thinking about things that way. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com